How Does Mediation Work

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How Mediation Works

 

There are four stages:

The free telephone call, which is optional

The initial assessment meeting – this is an individual meeting

Mediation sessions – these are joint sessions

The conclusion – any agreed proposals are written up for you 

 

1

Free Optional 10 minute Phone Call

If you want to find out more, you can have a free short telephone call. If you then decide to go ahead, you can book your first meeting online

 

2

Initial Separate Meeting

You attend a Mediation Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAM) on your own for up to an hour; your mediator will listen to you and give you information so that you can find out about the mediation process & other routes, and to help you to find out if mediation is right for you

Your ex partner should also be given the opportunity to attend. You can contact them and ask them to contact us, or we can contact them and invite them to attend the same type of meeting

3

Joint Mediation Sessions

Next, if the mediator and both parties agree that mediation is appropriate, we can proceed with joint mediation meetings. They usually lasting 1½ – 2 hours. These are attended by both parties

At the meetings, your mediator will listen to you both and help you to settle your differences.

The number of meetings will depend on how complicated your issues are but will generally be between 2 and 4 sessions for financial matters and 1-2 where child only issues are discussed

 

4

Written Proposals or Parenting Plan

After mediation concludes, your mediator will produce documents outlining any agreed proposals made in the meeting.

These can then be taken to your lawyer to turn into a consent order

Court Forms

If you do not reach an agreement or either one of you decides not to mediate, your mediator can sign the relevant court form so that you can issue court proceedings should you want to

Please note: The meetings are confidential and cannot be used in any legal proceedings and your attendance is totally voluntary

Why Choose Us

We understand that the process of separation can be challenging and emotional.

Your children are important and we will help you to think about what’s best for them

Our experienced and accredited mediators are here to support you every step of the way, and help you find a resolution that works for your family.

We can work with you to find out if mediation is appropriate, and if not, what the best route forward is for you and your family

Our lead mediator has over twenty years experience as a Family Mediator, supervises other mediators, has won the prestigious Resolution John Cornwell Award, and authored the highly regarded Separated Parents Information Programme (SPIP)

Our Approach

Our approach is centred around helping separated parents navigate the difficulties of co-parenting

We believe that mediation can be a powerful tool in helping parents find common ground and create a healthy co-parenting relationship

Where this is not appropriate we can help you to look at the best way to parent in parallel

We aim to make sure that everyone’s views are heard and help you to resolve any conflict between you

Mediation can also help you to address difficulties that you’re having communicating your needs, and everyone who takes part is supported, helped and encouraged to actively participate

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Divorced Parents Of Three

March 2024